The Importance and Search for Harmony

This is a response to the one-word prompt “Harmony” by “The Daily Post.”

Life can be and is chaotic. It is long, filled with hardships, and often very unpredictable. Yet, at the same time life is not only these things; there is joy, meaning, and purpose to life. The key to living one’s life most effectively is to find the balance between the two aspects of life and to be able to balance them in your life. Life requires harmony.  It requires us to accept both the good and the bad in the world of life and to acknowledge that both exists.

We all want harmony in our lives, and we all seek it out, but perhaps that is our problem, that we put too much effort into finding harmony, that we can easily miss when it appears. Perhaps all we really need to do is in all everyday lives going about our “things” we just keep our “eyes” open for when harmony presents itself; so that we can actually take enjoyment of that harmony when we get it. Life, in order to have harmony, requires us to enjoy the “simple pleasures” and “small things.”

So what are your thoughts on the subject? Do you have harmony in your life; what does it look life? For me, harmony is taking things slow or trying too, and enjoying nature to put things into perspective.

Those Chuckle Moments

This is a response to the one-word prompt “Chuckle” by “The Daily Post.”

Every now and then I will be with a group of people (friends, family, or acquittances);  something will be said, something done, or have happened that just causes everyone to chuckle, to crack a smile and I just love those moments. It does not matter what it is or how things are going at the time (what the atmosphere is like) good or bad, but just having those “chuckle moments” means so much and gives a lot without taking anything away.

These chuckle moments are special for me because they are so spontaneous and almost natural in their occurrence. Because of this everyone experiencing a “chuckle moment” can’t help but be affected positively. It is only when one tries to actively “manufacture” a “chuckle moment” that there can and often is some kind of negativity involved.  For me, a good “chuckle moment” is whenever I am listening to someone give a lecture/talk or speech and they introduce usually ay “accident” some kind of joke or light comment. These help to relax the atmosphere and also help make a point.

What do you think about “chuckle moments?” If you like them, what are some of your favorite kinds? Do you have any specific ones you would like to share? Life can and often is hard on each of us that we need the “little things’ such as those “chuckle moments” to lighten the mood and keep things interesting and fun. So keep a lookout for those “chuckle moments” you never know when they will show.

Please share your thoughts, they are always welcome and very much wanted.

Going in Blindly

This is a response to the one-word prompt “Blindly” by “The Daily Post.”

Everyone, well maybe not everyone, but most everyone knows of the danger of rushing into something blindly and not knowing the “whole picture.” Yet, at the same time “going in blindly” is prevalent all across human civilization and history. It is especially prevalent,  in today’s modern word.

As soon as we see a problem, no matter what it is, there is at once calls to “go in and fix it” without really stopping to look at the problem and analyze it, to figure out why the problem exists. As humans, we do not like to wait to solve our problems, we just want them to go away. Thus, we will often go with the first most obvious solution to do so even when we have no reason to believe it will work, except that it offers the quickest and easiest “fix.”

As long as we humans remain an inpatient bunch; that can’t control our impulses, the problems that we as societies and as individuals face each and every day will continue to repeat and only get worse throughout time and history as has been the case so far. If we really wanted to “fix” our problems, we would stop looking for the quick and easy path and actually try to “solve” the problems that pop up as they pop up.

What are your thoughts one the subject?

Don’t Put Off Till Later

This is a response to the one-word prompt “Later” by “The Daily Post.”

In our busy days and lives, we all tend to put off some things for later that we see not as important/time sensitive as other things. This, unfortunately, is a mistake because all that does is add to more things that we will have to do at a later date/time. Putting off the “small” things till later does not lesson our “loads” or give us more time, but actually less.

At the time, we make the decision to “put off” something, it may deceptively seem like the best thing to do; when it is really not.  But that is how we humans seem to function most of the time, by always looking for the easy way or path of least resistance; or at the very least what appears to be so at the time. Because of who we are, we are very easily taken in by first appearances without looking deeper.

So the next time you are pulled to “put something off” till later, stop and think if that is really the best thing to do. Take a real long look at all you have on your plate, both at the moment and for the “later” time to see just how that will affect you and getting everything done. What are your thoughts and the subject? Please share. 


The Passport of Life

This is a response to #the one-word prompt “Passport” by “The Daily Post.

If you travel regularly around the word or just to the country “next door,” you are very familiar with your #passport and do have one. Its pages will be filled with stamps #of all the foreign places you have been. In other words, a passport is a log/journal of all that you have seen and experienced, of the wider world in your #life so far. But if you think about it the passport of your country of origin used for travel, is not our only passport in life.

When one creates photo albums filled with photos of the things/events in your life that have affected you deeply, you are in a sense making a passport to log the significant parts of your life. When we keep a diary/journal, that is basically doing the same thing as a passport. All of our lives are/will be filled with lots of amazing, beautiful, and yes, even scary, ugly events and experiences; and throughout time, we humans have always wanted to remember them, record them for future generations to experience and learn from, and even have “keepsakes of.”

From journals, photos, antiques, letters, and keeping old tools even when no longer used; all of these are just some of the extensions of our 2nd “passport of life” that we keep. What is your passport like? How many filled “pages” does it have? What are some of the experiences recorded in it? If you don’t have one, why not?

Looking at the Problem; not the Symptom

This is a response to #the one-word prompt “Symptom” by “The Daily Post.”

We as humans a lot of times when trying to solve a #problem tend to put too much attention on the symptoms of the problem and #not the problem its self. Why is that the case; why are we so distracted by just the #symptom, over the actual problem? Is that the right way to solve problems, or is the right way actually focusing on the problems themselves?

The issue is very similar to one being sick with the cold/flu or some other sickness; if you have a cold of the flu you tend to experience upset stomach, congestion, and a fever. We tend to focus on lessening those symptoms, but forget that those symptoms are not the sickness themselves but signs that one is sick; and that the body is #at work fighting off the sickness. Instead of focusing on the symptoms of the flu, we should be focusing on helping our immune system fight off the flu by giving our body what it needs such as vitamins and fluids (water).

The same is the case when dealing with all problems in all cases, focus not on the problem’s symptoms, but on what is needed to naturally” fix/heal the problem and get back to regular operating procedures. When one tries to solve a problem by focusing on the symptoms and not the cause, then one risks either making the problem worse or creating new/more problems to deal with because all that you are doing is further messing up, and changing the system/body that the problem resides in. By doing this you prevent the “immune” system from doing its job correctly and resetting the system to before the problem ever showed up.

The problem of focusing on the symptoms and not the problem its self is no better seen and a problem its self then when dealing with economic troubles, slowdowns, and so forth. Low employment and people losing their jobs while terrible and no one wants, is just like a fever with the flu; that it is just a symptom of the broader economic system that we live and work in trying to correct a mistake that was made that had upset the balance of the whole system. When governments try too much to stop these symptoms it not only distracts them from finding out what went wrong and correcting the issue but it only makes things worse. Things get worse for the economy because it now has more “junk” closing up the wheels of economic growth.  Instead of trying to solve the issues of the symptoms of economic slowdowns such as unemployment, governments should instead just wait it out and help those who lost their jobs all of a sudden to cop and survive until they can get a new job.

So no focusing on the symptom/s of a problem whether hen the problem its self is not a good thing despite the fact that is how most people and society handles their problems. If we can just learn to do the opposite, then we would have a lot less problems in our life times and when we do have them, would be able to recover more easier and faster from them. While it is often tempting to focus on the “pain” that the symptoms cause, and wanting to do anything and everything to get rid of that pain; we need to learn to “chug it out. What are your thoughts on the issue of problems and their symptoms?

Its ok to be Nervous

This is a response to the one-word prompt “Nervous” by “The Daily Post.”

Who doesn’t get nervous; no one that’s who. Everyone gets nervous at least once in their lives if not more. We all know this, it’s just a fact of life; and yet we do not like to acknowledge such when it happens. It is an inconvenient truth for us. Why is that the case? Is being nervous really such a bad thing that when we experience such, we can’t admit it?

The thing is, being nervous, despite how we feel about it is not really a bad thing and is quite ok to be so. Being nervous does not just have to about holding you back or making you second guess your decision in something. It can be and often is an extra enforcement for continuing down the path you have set. Being nervous allows one to more see what is “at stake” in any given situation and can help to put “everything” relating to what is making you nervous in a bigger/clearer light.

So the next time you find yourself getting nervous over a decision you have made or are about to make, don’t get caught up with the decision itself. But instead, allow that nervousness to make you think about all the reasons for the decision and what the consequences (good and bad) are. In this way, nervousness can either reform that you are making the right decision or perhaps are not making the right one at least not completely. Don’t be ashamed when you get nervous, it’s ok to be so.